The journey to wholeness begins with brokenness. So if someone broke your heart, don’t blame him/her. Instead, be thankful that he/she placed you on the path to wholeness. Work on yourself with the understanding that what broke your heart was not love, but attachment to the person. Love is not so poor. It was your ego, that was clinging to what you mistakenly perceived as love.
You are already whole but in the process of growing up, conditioned by the society, you forgot your wholeness. In your innocence, you believed the lies that the society told you, that you are weak and powerless, that you are only half and you need another person to complete you. In your innocence, you kept looking for love, for a prince/ss to love you and make you whole. That’s the biggest lie the society has driven into you. Two people begging for love from each other without love for self, are heading for disappointment and disillusionment. There is no way the other can complete you, because both are broken inside. Two broken souls only damage each other.
So before you look for love again, work on yourself, love yourself and heal yourself. Reclaim your power back. Instead of begging for love, become love. Love empowers and makes you whole ( while attachment sucks the life out of you !! ).
Become a giver of unconditional love, without discrimination. Don’t be a victim of worldly love. Be a winner of Divine Love and the right people will gravitate towards you.
Become whole and your wholeness will attract another wholeness towards you. That love will be conscious love built on awareness and mutual respect.