The
journey to wholeness begins with brokenness. So if someone broke your heart,
don’t blame him/her. Instead, be thankful that he/she placed you on the path to
wholeness. Work on yourself with the understanding that what broke your heart
was not love, but attachment to the person. Love is not so poor. It was your
ego, that was clinging to what you mistakenly perceived as love.
You are
already whole but in the process of growing up, conditioned by the society,
you forgot your wholeness. In your
innocence, you believed the lies that the society told you, that you are weak
and powerless, that you are only half and you need another person to complete
you. In your innocence, you kept looking for love, for a prince/ss to love you
and make you whole. That’s the biggest lie the society has driven into you. Two
people begging for love from each other without love for self, are heading for
disappointment and disillusionment. There is no way the other can complete you,
because both are broken inside. Two broken souls only damage each other.
So
before you look for love again, work on yourself, love yourself and heal
yourself. Reclaim your power back. Instead of begging for love, become love.
Love empowers and makes you whole ( while attachment sucks the life out of you
!! ).
Become a giver of unconditional love, without discrimination. Don’t be a
victim of worldly love. Be a winner of Divine Love and the right people will
gravitate towards you.
Become
whole and your wholeness will attract another wholeness towards you. That love
will be conscious love built on awareness and mutual respect.
This is the best advice I heard all year.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much !! If the message helped at least one person, then I have lived the purpose of my life. Love and blessings to you dear friend !!!
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